In het hier en nu is mijn verbondenheid met lief C. altijd prioriteit nr. 1 en wij zijn daarin en in alles wederzijds. Maar de woorden van mister Pitt herinneren me meer dan ooit aan dat we elkaars spiegels zijn - ALTIJD en dat onze woorden en daden in onze relaties heel veel impact hebben - ALTIJD.
Daarom dat ik zijn tekst hier met jullie deel. Heel inspirerend.
Brad Pitt over zijn liefde Angelina Jolie.
"My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and children. She lost 30 pounds and weighted about 90 pounds. She got very skinny and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the mornings and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of a break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…
...but then I decided to act. After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her. I began to shower her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised and pleased her every minute. I gave her a lot of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends. You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became better. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much.
And then I realized one thing: the woman is the reflection of her man.
If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it."
Brad Pitt
De tekst heb ik gevonden via Adam Danyal zijn Facebook-pagina.
